谢安琪 -  钟无艳

                        

 

 

31.10.2008

I received a Email from someone the story are like this...

 

THIS IS HOW WE MISS OUT SOMETHING CALLED 'LIFE'
A boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage. They were a loving couple and the boy was the gem of their eyes. When the boy was around two years old, one morning the husband saw a medicine bottle open. He was late for office so he asked his wife to cap the bottle and keep it in the cupboard. His wife, preoccupied in the kitchen totally forgot the matter. The boy saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle fascinated by its color and drank it all. It happened to be a poisonous medicine meant for adults in small dosages. When the child collapsed the mother hurried him to the hospital, where he died. The mother was stunned. She was terrified how to face her husband. When the distraught father came to the hospital and saw the dead child, he looked at his wife and uttered just five words.

QUESTIONS: -
1. What were the five words ?
2. What is the implication of this story?

ANSWER: -
The husband just said ' I am with you Darling '

The husband's totally unexpected reaction is a proactive behavior. The child is dead. He can never be brought back to life. There is no point in finding fault with the mother. Besides, if only he had taken time to keep the bottle away, this would not have happened. No one is to be blamed. She had also lost her only child. What she needed at that moment was consolation and sympathy from the husband... That is what he gave her. If everyone can look at life with this kind of perspective, there would be much fewer problems in the world. 'A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.' Take off all your envies, jealousies, unforgiveness, selfishness, and fears. And you will find things are actually not as difficult as you think.

MORAL OF THE STORY: -
This story is really worth reading. ...... Sometimes we spend time in asking who is responsible or whom to blame, whether in a relationship, in a job or with the people we know.

By this way we miss out something called L.I.F.E.

Hope the above story touches you.........have a nice day!!

 

 

25.10.2008

Today very very bored… Cos’early morning have appointments with the contactor at Damansara Damai for doing defect of my shop unit… but when I reach there the Indonesion worker say want to start work at afternoon and ask me free or not… Of cos’ for me to weste my time to wait there few hours for doing nothing, I don’t want… Than he asks me when I going to free again, he needed half day to done the entire job… no chances for me… mmm… make an other appointments with him on next Tuesday afternoon…

I already reach there this morning, what to do…??? Surf net at there 咯!!! But I can’t logon MSN, don’t known why…??? Afternoon 了, call Peng for lunch, but Peng say need to wiat until 4 hours time than free to go out with me…

Hahaha… Call K@rMooN to having lunh with me… 11:45am from Damansara Damai to K@rMooN work places, reach there around 12:30pm… call her out to lunch with me…

Ater that I go home has a small rest… than 5:00pm go do some job… around 6::30pm reach Peng house and we go Pavilion KL eat dinner at Ichiban Boshi (Japanese Food)… after dinner we go walk here walk there doing windows shopping and 找看有什好吃和舒适的地点让我们可以relax at there… 我们找到了一个蛮不错的地方 (DainTiHill), we will go there next time, there look like a places for us to relax there and we can sit there 长聊…   

 

 

15.10.2008

(℡籹炷角ɑ`ㄣ☆Jane寶ゞ)问我什么时候喜欢Thelma Aoyama feat.SoulJa - Soba ni Irune这首歌... 其实我喜欢这首歌很久了... 我还每天在我的电脑里不停的播放着... 我也不知为何那么喜欢这首歌,可能是被歌的故事所感动吧!!! 我从来没谈过恋爱,什么是爱情??? 我不懂!!! 但我确感受到歌曲里女主角的情感世界,也可能是女歌星的唱腔太好听了… 她的歌声吸引了我吧!!!  哈哈!!!  

今天也是我朋友YIN YIN 和CONNIE 的生日... 祝她们生日快乐...

 

 

02.10.2008

Today morning I go breakfast with Nico and her sister Feibbe, after breakfast help Feibbe to ship her thing to her new rented room at Cheras, cos’near her work places... Afternoon go Selayang lunch with Annie at Pizza Hut, eat until too full... After lunch go 1U shopping with Peng and buy birthday present for Ai Yin... Night time go dinner with Ai Yin at Japanese Restorant, foods are delicious... I'm so free today??? Cos’today are Hari Raya holiday, I'm no working... Hahaha...

 

 

30.09.2008

Haha...   I just came back from Ampang 九王爷....   跟我朋友去, 他载我去, 我从没去过那里, 想去见识见识...  果然真地好多好多人...   到了2 - 3 点还是有人来...  I reach home already 3:00am… 　　其实我已经好累好想睡了，但是我朋友他们还不要回，没办法唯有等咯！！！我座他的车去嘛！！！

 

 

29.09.2008

Today I'm so happy, someone says I'm 22-23 years old...  Hahaha...

 

 

28.09.2008

哈!!! 今天是星期日,不用工做,不过,我还是得早起,还好是自然醒...... cos' need to go Church at 10:30am... MAS start at 11:00am... Afternoon go lunch with family at SS2...

 

 

25.09.2008

习惯了一个人的早餐,一个人开始新的一天,没有不确定,没有无奈,因为,没有期待…

 

 

24.09.2008

哈哈!!! 今天是我懒惰的一天。。。懒惰出门，懒惰，就是很懒惰。。。

 

23.09.2008 

  我们的人生常会遇到很多不开心, 不如意的事,我希望我身边的每一个人都可以开开心快快乐乐的微笑…

 

22.09.2008

人生就是如此, 每天都好忙, 好忙, 但是又不知为了什么而忙......

工做吗??? 每天都有忙不完的工做, 突然好想偷偷懒... 不想工做, 不想出门, 不想说话, 不想伪装自己... 只想一人静静的躺着... 为了什么??? 不知道... 只想休息吗??? 不知道...

10.08.2008

人在成长的过程中，难免遇到挫折。懂得保护自己，也要懂得爱护自己。生命的乐章，看你自己如何去谱写。躲避不一定躲得过，面对不一定最难受。得到不一定能长久，失去不一定不再有。转身不一定最软弱，别急着说别无选择，别以为世上只有对于与错。许多事情的答案都不只一个，所以我们永远有路可走。你能找到理由难过，也一定能找到快乐。懂得放心的人找到轻松，懂得遗忘的人找到自由，懂得关怀的人找到朋友。

 

06.08.2008

能牵手的时候，请别只是肩并肩，能拥抱的时候，请别只是手牵手，能在一起的时候，请别轻易分开！如果你真爱一个人，请把此资讯转发九个好友包括我，表示我是你的好友，若有三个回 ，证明你的好运会在农历七月七日紫色情人节实现！直到永远！

 

 

30.07.2008

最近我都很忙，压力也越来越来大了...  压在心里的那颗石头也越来越大了... 没人会了解我,了解我的心情...  很多时候想要找个人聊聊都难... 有时很想大哭一场,将所有的不悦都发泄出来,但怎么也哭不出来... 做人真烦... 人生就是如此...

 

27.07.2008

今晚没胃口用餐, 不知为什么不想吃, 可能是最近的工做压力太大了吧!!! 没有人会了解我的心情... 没有人会了解我...

 

10.07.2008

最近心情怪怪的, 不能控制, 很不舒服... 这几个月是有很多不是很愉快的事不停的发生, 很想什么都不理, 去旅行散散心, 让自己休休息, 充充电...

 

  09.07.2008

  感激伤害你的人，因为他磨炼了你的心志；

 

  感激绊倒你的人，因为他强化了你的双腿；

  感激欺骗你的人，因为他增进了你的智慧；

 

  感激藐视你的人，因为他觉醒了你的自尊；

　感激遗弃你的人，因为他教会了你该独立。